We need to help the young people who intend to marry and settle down, I hope you are feeling lovey-dovey this weekend so flow with me. Am also seducing my unconscious to give me more information to understand my romantic life story and also get more material.
I have come across those words twice now, in several relationships based FB groups and Am investigating their validity. I have come to know that all words carry some truth! It all depends on the level of consciousness from which they emanate.
So my understanding of “marry the one who loves you not vice versa” is that when somebody loves you honestly, they will easily overcome the resistance from your unconscious and so increase the chances of the relationship taking off.
Naturally, it is very egoistic to say “I Am the one who loves him/her” because you retain the power to reject them too. See? So the ego naturally wants to love, on its own terms of course, as a show of superiority.
But it cringes away from being loved! To be loved is more dangerous for the ego than it is for the ego to love!
Investigate this. How do these words make you feel? Which ones are easy for you to tell another person?
1. “Thank you for loving me.”
2. “You are lucky I love you.”
If you are comfortable accepting and bowing to love, no. 1 will be easy for you. If you are full of your stupid egoism, you will find no. 2 easier. You are resistant to love. Your ego cant gives in. You are full of defences against love.
So I think those words make sense although one must be careful not to declare love out of weakness. That may lay the foundation for abuse later.
Think about it