WE CAN MAKE MARRIAGE MORE OF A FRIENDLY,
Are you a realist?. Do you have any deal? To many, to understand reality and to go with reality is the only right way for any intelligent man or woman.
The understanding is – and it is based on many people’s experiences – that if marriage is not such a tight thing, rigid, but is flexible, just a friendship.
So a woman can tell you she has met a beautiful young man and she is going this weekend to be with him – “And if you are interested I can bring him back with me, you will also love the person.” And if the husband can say, not as a hypocrite but as an authentic human being., that “Your joy, your happiness is my happiness.
If you have found someone, forget about the house, I will take care. You enjoy, because I know whenever you come back, enjoying a fresh love will make you fresh also. A fresh love will bring fresh youth to you. You go this week, and next week I may have my own program.”
This is friendship. And when they come home they can talk about what kind of man she met, how he turned out, that it was not that great… You can tell her about the new woman you have met…
You have a shelter in the home. You can go once in a while into the sky, wild and free, and come back and always your wife is there waiting for you – not to fight but to share your adventures.
It simply needs a little understanding. It has nothing to do with religion, but just a little more intelligent behaviour.
You know perfectly well that howsoever beautiful a man or woman might be, she starts becoming heavy on your nerves sooner or later. Because of the same geography, the same topography, the same landscape…
Man’s mind is not made for monotony; neither it is made for monogamy. It is absolutely natural to ask for variety. And it is not against your love.
In fact, the more you know other women, the more you will praise your own woman – your understanding will deepen. Your experience will be enriching.